The great American Tennis Player, Serena Williams recently released a statement and confirmed that she had a baby by Alexis Ohanian, American Internet entrepreneur and investor, who is co-founder and executive chairman of the social news website Reddit. He also so happens to be a Caucasian male.
With Serena Williams being the adoration of Black America and in particular black males, she pissed off a good amount of her black fan base with her choice of a lover.
Many black men who lusted after her on television and computer screens for years – decades even – were disappointed, blindsided and some were even angry. After all, Black America has been following and supporting the beautiful 23 time Grand Slam champion around since childhood, along with her sister Venus. We supported elevated and lauded her with vigor, pride and enthusiasm.
We, Black Male America, felt like we owned a piece of Serena after rooting for her to win all those tennis matches. Black men (even myself) would tune in regularly to watch her sexy, short tennis skirts, her glistening sweaty chocolate skin and of course : THE BOOT-AY.
Sometimes we didn’t even care about the tennis match. I know I didn’t. As long as that skirt went up a serve or two ……..sheeeeeeeeeet…… it was all love (pun intended).
Then in 2015, she started seriously dating what happened to be a white Guy.
And all hell broke loose on social media, barber shops and in urban areas everywhere.
How dare she betray us by going with a cracker? the oppressor? D’wight man?
She went from a Queen to a sellout. From a representative of the race to race traitor. From a boss to a bitch. From lusted for to loathed. From vixen to villain. All this vitriol in ONE day. By mostly Black men.
Now this article isn’t really about Serena necessarily.
It’s about black women and the way alot of black men perceive and treat them. It’s also about how alot of Black women perceive and BELIEVE they will be treated by white men.
Let’s talk about it…….
First and foremost, congratulations to Serena and her and her family. Children are a beautiful thing to have and raise and any one who hates that because of the racial aspect of the child is scum. Plain and simple.
However there is a myth, amongst lots of lonely black women recently, that seem to think that finding and dating a caucasian man is the cure for their difficulty when dealing with black men in relationships.
You’ve seen this online:
Im here to present a reality that contradicts that fantasy.
Now let’s look at some examples of interracial relationships where black women have chosen white men.
Robin Thicke and Paula Patton:
According to a very detailed story on EOnline , Robin Thicke and Paula Patton met each other as high school sweethearts. Paula, who was then the president of their high schools black student union ironically, hooked up with Robin after he sang Jodeci’s forever my lady to her in his father’s home. Robin’s Father is TV ‘s Dating Game host Alan Thicke.
It seemed that they had a great marriage until Robin Thicke blew up with the song “Lost Without You” in 2006 and then “Blurred Lines” in 2013
In Robin’s own words for the breakup:
“We’re apart because we just couldn’t be together anymore for a while,” he said. “There’s a hundred different reasons, there isn’t just one. There’s a long list… I changed, and I got a little too selfish, a little too greedy and little too full of myself.”
What he didn’t say was that he was on drugs, PHYSICALLY ABUSING Paula Patton AND his own son. To top it off he lost custody of his son due to this.
Now his girlfriend is a very white woman named April Love. They are expecting a child in August.
Looks like he blew up, started BEATING the breaks off his black wife and child and left his black wife for a white girl. The irony. Kanye said black men do that. And even though Kanye did it himself, leaving black and going white was supposed to be exclusively nigga sh*t.
Halle Berry & Gabriel Aubry:
Halle Berry married Gabriel in 2007 and their marriage ended in 2010.
According to the Daily Mail, Gabriel filed for spousal support and full custody of their daughter in 2010 and won getting 16k a month.
As Halle Berry went to court to reduce that huge support amount, she was hit with a racial epithet( called a nigger) according to court documents and accused Gabriel of straightening and dyeing their daughter’s hair so she would look less black and citing it could cause psychological damage to their then 6-year-old. She even brought in scientific evidence to prove that he was straightening and dying her hair
Damn. 16k a month in child support though. Sounds like legal pimping to me and very strategic planning. Not to mention the self hate he was instilling on their daughter.
I thought only black men pimped and dogged their women. This seems far worse.
Tiki Branch, Co Owner of “Miss Jessie’s” hair products and boyfriend Anthony Spadafora:
First of all Rest in peace to Miss Branch. She committed suicide. I’ll let Tiki’s sister tell ya’ll what happened according to what she said in this New York Post article:
“Titi, 45, was under Spadafora’s Svengali-like spell, Miko claims in Manhattan Supreme Court papers, saying he isolated her from her family, manipulated her and treated her like a human ATM.
Titi even changed the beneficiary of her $2 million in life insurance policies from her sister to Spadafora — because of his “undue influence,” Miko claims.
“My sister’s death has been a devastating blow,” she told The Post. “It was only after Titi’s death that we learned more about what she’d been going through and how her affairs were being managed.”
Spadafora “wielded exceptional control over [her] while fully aware that her mental health was severely compromised,” the sister claims, referring to Titi’s “disabling” depression.
In just two years Spadafora, 43, managed to “extract” hundreds of thousands of dollars from Titi to launch his own beard-care business, Maestro’s Classics; $420,000 to buy and renovate a Pennsylvania house; and a $135,000 interest-free loan.
“In exchange, [she] received nothing,” Miko charged.
Titi was ready to kick Spadafora to the curb last year when she found out he sexually propositioned her trainer, but he knew how to keep her in line, Miko alleges in court papers.
Spadafora “took extreme measures to stop her . . . sending compromising photographs that he had taken of her,” the sister claims.
Within days of her death, he peppered her grieving parents with emails claiming he had a new will drafted by Titi giving him 50 percent of everything, according to the suit.
He also took his girlfriend’s computer and refused to return it to her family members unless they forked over Titi’s expensive Cartier bracelet, according to court papers.
When they did, the computer he returned had its drive scrubbed clean, the Branch family claims.”
There are of course more examples like this and I’m not highlighting these to say I’m against interracial relationships. I firmly believe that people should find love where it best serves them and if it happens to be a person of another then race so be it. People need love and it’s an important aspect in enjoying the quality of life.
I wish Serena Williams and her new family success and i hope it works out for her and her husband. I do not wish them any ill will whatsoever and I’ve never been a hater.
I’ve highlighted these examples to show that white isn’t always right and that men are men regardless of their lack of melanin. Its character, morals and actions that define someone not necessarily your skin tone.
We are nothing but the energy we choose to project in the world.
You can have all the “magical” melanin in the world. If you don’t use your gifts for spiritual and mental development but a caucasian with limited melanin focuses and dedicates his life to the aforementioned development, the caucasian wins.
Personally, i will always love, be with and date and eventually marry a black woman. Am i perfect? No. Have i myself always been great to black women? No.
I can only hope my apologies and growth have made me better. Life’s about progression beloved.
I understand why many black women want to date outside their race, even though they may truly love, adore and genuinely desire to be mated with their black men.
Serena dated Common, Drake, and other Black men and she didn’t choose one. We don’t know the details of her reasons for not choosing them and the reasons may or may not be valid-but the white boy got the ring. That’s the reality.
Oh and be clear. He may have proposed but the woman always does the choosing.
WHERE BLACK MEN ARE GOING WRONG AND HOW TO GET THEIR WOMEN BACK.
If you’re an honest black american, you can easily see that a vast majority of Black men aren’t living up to the basic standards of manhood. And even though they aren’t, black women continue to support, love and hold down black men.
And before you tell me about how the white man did this to us, recite passages of the Willie lynch letter and tell me about how the welfare system disenfranchised us please realise i don’t care about that shit. None of your excuses. Fuck that.
How hard is it to open the door/car door for a woman?
How hard is it to kiss your woman/hold her hand/squeeze her booty/hug her in public?
How hard is it to actually date and plan a date for a Nubian queen?
How hard is it to be the breadwinner and not go 50/50 on the bills but pay the majority of the bills? And if she is the breadwinner currently, at least strive to meet and exceed her by developing and honing skills?
How hard is it to constantly complement your woman and make her feel special?
How hard is it to let her be free in her respectful sexual expression and provide safe spaces for her to express her sexuality?
How hard is to elevate your woman and make her feel like a Queen by complimenting her consistently?
You know who IS doing this for black women?
i see it with my own eyes daily. A lot of while male PDA on black women. Mostly the ones with the most melanin also.
The funny thing is they are tapping into what black men should be and getting better because of it.
I could get real esoteric and talk about how black pussy is a stargate and if you stroke that vagina with visions of your hopes dreams and desires they will manifest in tangible reality eventually. I could say that the reason sex and sexuality is demonized by the church is so you don’t access that stargate as much as possible. I could say that sex is the highest form of creation and the black woman and child is worshipped as the black madonna and child in the Vatican which is really hiding Auset and Heru in kemetic lore and that the popes take this energy of the black madonna to subjugate the populace……but i digress.
(if you are interested, i do have an e-book on sex magick that i will email you for a paypal donation of only 8 dollars. I literally went from making 12.50 an hour 3 years ago to 40k last year almost 100k this year using these techniques .Screenshot or take a pic of your donation and e-mail me at Robwatson7@gmail.com “Sex E-Book” in the subject line.)
Also, cop and Read Adika Butler’s Book “Treasures of Darkness” for more clarity on this at www.mindglowbooks.com.
and for the BIG problem: HOW HARD IS IT TO MAKE MUSIC NOT CALLING THE MOTHERS OF YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN BITCHES AND HOES? IS OUR VOCABULARY THAT STUNTED? HAVE WE BECOME THAT DUMB?
See my articles on Victimhood and Why Melanin isn’t enough if you need to understand why there is no excuse for this Black Male behavior on the cusp of the information age.
Black men have to start trying to conquer the world again like the Moors and Hannibal of Carthage once did. We have to once again be aggressive and HIGHLY COMPETITIVE in the areas of commerce, spirituality and self-development, self-healing and overall growth.
Black men have taken on aspects of white male patriarchy and capitalism…without the COMPETITIVE mindset of the capitalist. Facts: We aren’t competing with white men aggressively enough in areas of power and business but we are aggressive when it comes to our own women.
Black men (and women) have been placed in unnatural conditions in a foreign land with no tools to reflect and nurture their inner greatness. From the media to the school textbook, he has been conditioned to be a thug who is a cancer in his own community or a black male in white face living to serve his former slave master.
In inner cities across America, the thug – through the media and schooling – is the subconsciously placed ideal for the black male to achieve his manhood. To survive as a thug amongst thugs, one must put on a mask of perpetual toughness as to not show his feelings to the world. Feelings are a weakness in the urban jungle. This leads to an inner castration of the divine within and replaces it with a soulless empty shell: cold, callous and frozen in development. Often time this shell becomes filled with drugs and alcohol and other nefarious coping mechanisms. Masks to hide the pain of a black man losing his soul.
Rapsody does a great job breaking down black “Pain” in this video. She analyzes the dynamics of black male/female pain like an urban psychologist:
(Sidebar: It also doesn’t help that this thug ideal becomes the avatar of the black male in the eyes of a lot of impressionable black women as well, making the black male who does not display these characteristics lower on the sex selection totem pole further perpetuating these behaviors among post pubescent young men. Some women even create and mold their sons from youth in this way to make sure they can survive in toxic urban and impoverished environments….also because they think its cute)
You need emotions to grow. You need to feel and face your pains to rise above them. This unfeeling is what’s plaguing black men, his community and ultimately what’s causing this mistreatment of his woman. He is trying to get his soul back through sex. He is trying to fuck his way back to the divinity within.
We want to dominate our women through sexual conquest but not conquer the world. We are conditioned to be the black bucks having multiple baby mothers and we are creating illegitimate un-attended progeny that is destined to work to build up the white world through incarceration and slave wage labor. We are unapologetically comfortable collectively doing less and expecting more. We are living in William Lynch’s dream.
We take pride in this shit. This has to end. We gotta grow up and glow up. We need our black women.
One of the reason i love James St. Patrick’s character in the series Power, is that he is there to compete with white men in a legit business and leave the dope game alone. He doesn’t want or let them control him. And regardless of his infidelity, he demonstrates his love for the women in his life. Art can imitate life. You choose.
Also stop bitching and complaining about the white man. Steal your culture, art, science and spirituality back from the white man. He stole it from you and built a world of success from it. Steal it back!
The black woman must be elevated. We have to put her back on her pedestal as the god she is. Once we do the black community worldwide will begin to transform. Our ancient matrilineal empires like Babylon (Ishtar), Kemet (Auset), Sumerian (Innana) and all its pomp, spiritual and military power and regalia prove this.
The pope is still winning too. That Black madonna worship. Kiss her and talk to her nice.
Even now, if you do a deep dive into our current pop culture you can see women taking back their power from music to politics to sex.
This article isn’t about simpin. It’s about Black men losing the world’s greatest resource: the black woman.
It’s also about the fact that you can go date white men and swirl as a black woman and still get gone dirty af.
Ask a white woman how great her marriage is. Then listen and see if the relationship problems are similar if not worse. The grass ALWAYS looks greener on the other side.
Let’s grow and glow. Lets heal each other by healing ourselves first. Peace, Power and Prosperity.
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