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 “If you can’t get money on an earth this big/You worthless kid/Don’t even deserve to live” – Cam’ron

Thirst Trapping is a hobby for some and an ego boost for others. The rise of social media has prompted people to do various things for attention, likes and that hit of dopamine.

Let’s start with the most famous thing. TWERKING.

Ah…. The infamous twerk.

We’ve all seen someone doing it while casually scrolling through Instagram, Facebook or Twitter and other social media.

Whether we love it or hate it, the booty bouncing phenomenon is here to stay.

Personally I like twerking but that’s not the point of this article. But, if you wanna inbox me a twerk video, I won’t be offended (winks)

Twerkings origin has been traced back to black women in West Africa. It’s since been appropriated by other cultures ( like almost everything else black people create) and been popularized. This dance craze really started exploding into the mainstream around 2013 when Miley Cyrus uploaded a YouTube video doing the dance.

(Miley Cyrus is kind of the worst twerker ever and you REALLY need some sort of ass meat to twerk respectfully and Lil  Miley has a tailbone for an ass but that’s besides the point)

Twerking does take skill and there are hundreds of YouTube videos of people either trying to Twerk or successfully bouncing that ass proper.

Another thing you see on social media are naked and half-naked selfies. They usually get a ton of likes or hearts if the woman is attractive or shapely.


I’ve even seen people actually have SEX on Facebook live for free. Yes, full on naked penetrative sex.  I’ve seen this more then once.

Why would someone have sex live on social media ??? I have NO clue but THAT is the point of this article.

All these things are affectionately called THIRST TRAPS.

THIRST TRAPS are the random twerk videos and half-naked or sometimes fully naked (Shout out to Twitter/IG/FB live) videos. Also, The scantily clad/ semi nude or just plain nude beauty shot selfies.

The reason thirst traps work are of course due to the beauty, twerk skill or nudity, but also because the viewer of the thirst trap often floods the comment section of the thirst trapper with pleas of desire, lust, likes, hearts and “add me’s”.

Now in my opinion, there’s nothing wrong with feeling sexy and confident and posting the OCCASIONAL selfie or twerk video. There’s also nothing wrong with liking or appreciating a beautiful picture or seductive video.

The problem is when YOU, the  THIRST TRAPPER, post these things online up two to three times a week and all you get is some hearts and some thumbs up without your bank account going up.

This needs to STOP. You’re thirst trapping without a purpose. You’re not MONETIZING the fan base that you caught in your trap.

From my observational analysis, lots of so-called minorities (Black and Latina women in particular) are guilty of giving away the virtual goods for free. White women have made twerking and thirst trapping big business. But don’t listen to me. Click here and here and see how white girls are doing it BIG.

In this article, i propose an almost foolproof step by step plan to turn your free twerk videos and sexy pictures into a paid hustle.

1. Create a PayPal account.
If you have a bank account and an email, you’re about 85% ready to open one. It’s easy.  Click here.

2. Create another Facebook/IG/Twitter page.
This will be the page you use to monetize your fan base that has been following your thirst trapping ass.
You can also go on YouTube and twerk to monetize it.


3. Tease your fans with shorter semi or less revealing videos/strategically covered photos.
Nobody wants to buy the Cow if the milk is free. Teasing is the KEY to this working. If you twerk make the video less than 10 seconds with about 5 of those seconds being your PayPal link and email for more. If it’s pictures you’re doing place emojis on the revealing parts or more sexual parts of the picture.

3a. If you’re having sex live on social media tease followers with foreplay then when enough people hit your PayPal with that schmoney, do the live video on your private page. I’ve seen people give directions to couples that were simply laying on the bed touching each other. ( ***This has the potential to make someone a lot of money. People LOVE amateur sex***) .Another idea is Girl on girl sex.  Muscular men showing off the goods to women etc. 

If your already having sex on live this should be a no brainer. Get paid for it.

4.Engage your fan/followers. Block haters.
Your job is to play into men( & women’s) FANTASIES of you. You have to be an escape from the reality of their lame wife, partner or girlfriend..which you are if you get about 200 people on your live videos already.
Be engaging, VERY complimentary and humorous. Good customer service skills translate in all walks of life.  Something as simple as saying hi or good morning to a follower BY NAME is a huge deal. However don’t take any shit. Let it be known haters will get blocked immediately and not let Into the private group/page. Even if the troll is paying it’s not worth the headache of getting harassed.

5. Post in already established Thirst trap groups consistently (If you aren’t already) to known and popular Thirst Trap groups and pages.   Instagram has pages for this. Twitter too.
On Facebook there are quite a lot of secret  groups though.  Also with Facebook being the number one social media platform you want to go where the masses are. If you email me or add me as a friend on Facebook , I’ll get you in for a small fee….via PayPal of course 🙂

6. If you develop a big enough fan base start selling merchandise.
T-shirts, Used panties, private videos, private webcam sessions, phone calls etc. I would do any videos live so they can’t be saved (unless you create a website and go all in) but that’s up to you boo.

7. Be consistent. The best time to do this would probably be between Thursday and Sunday. Social Media historically gets the most traffic these days. Also, you owe it to your now paying fans who follow you for a monthly fee to see you to give them content on a regular basis.

BONUS: Create calendars at the end of the year with original pictures. You’ll be surprised how many men and women will pay 10 to 20 bucks for a calendar with you in some (lingerie?) alluring clothing.

Will everyone pay you to Twerk or Thirst trap? No. But if you have followers and fans already and 15 out of every hundred pay, or more, you just turned getting likes into a Uber type of side hustle without doing much.

Oh, Charge what you wish. I think subscription services and one time fees at a higher rate are great options. You know what your time and energy is worth…i hope.

Sidebar: In my opinion, Women  (OR MEN) really shouldn’t be doing half the ratchet stuff they do for likes on social media to strangers. It’s mindless and devalues the woman to the men watching them and vice versa in all honesty. I don’t recommend getting nude online either.

But it is being done and I doubt it’s stopping anytime soon. If you’re doing it or going to do it at least get paid for it.

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Peace, Power and Prosperity.

7 Reasons Why You Don’t Get Pussy: Part 1

Sex is amazing. It feels awesome and the health benefits are great. However, alot of men aren’t having sex regularly and because of this they hate women and blame them for their inability to have sex.  Men have shot up their colleges because of this.
I’m here to tell you that you don’t have to be alone on Friday or Saturday nights playing video games and watching Netflix. In my experience, these simple things hinder some men and put them in the friend zone or worse: They get no pussy.

1. You’re a lame.

The common misconception that non pussy getters have is that they are too nerdy, different or straight-laced for women. Being a lame has nothing to do with being a nerd or a square. In fact, nerds and squares get a lot ofpussy strictly of intelligence and stability, two things women find attractive. However, a nerd or square can be a lame if he lacks drive and ambition.

A lame is an individual that is lazy, has no ambition, doesn’t go for what he wants, lacks courage and doesn’t have knowledge of himself and others.  A lame would rather sit on the couch, watch TV, play video games or watch porn,  rather than study female behavior and enhance their conversational skills by taking risks with women. A lame is quiet and on his smartphone in a room full of women, making eye contact and convo with none.
A lame friend of mine used to always ask me “Does she have any friends?” when he saw me bringing women to my house. I agreed to have a get together at her home with some of her friends. Guess what? He  meets the friends, one finds him attractive and he repays my matchmaker job by being quiet as a church mouse. Smh.

The other things lame say is that “she doesn’t want me, she  wants a thug, bad boy, gangster etc”. “She doesn’t want a nice decent guy”. This is falsehood and an excuse for you not being assertive.

Now there are women who like to be treated like less than women. Some even don’t think they are loved unless they are  abused in some way. In my experience these women aren’t the majority and usually can be evaluated by the way they treat and speak to you.

Everyone, regardless of gender, likes to be around people who are confident, brave and bold. People like people who take charge and get things done without excuses or apologies. People like people who are sure of themselves and embrace their dark side. Basically, people like people who are true and real about who they are and present all sides of themselves proudly.

Bravery and confidence are aphrodisiacs for women. This is why winners always get the girl. This is why entertainers have groupies. This is why Supermen have Lois Lanes. They went for what they wanted, was bold enough to present their talent to the world and achieved something.

Lames let life pass them by instead of manning up and taking control of it and manipulating it to his will. Control your destiny. Read books on women. Get out of the house and off the internet, unless your on the internet researching female behavior. You need to put your feet in the water.  Be bold and courageous. You have testicles and testosterone, not ovaries and estrogen. Let your nuts hang.

The best opening line with a woman? Saying hello with a smile on your face.

2. You have no sense of humor.

The saying ” laughter is the best medicine” isn’t around for no reason. Laughter is also one of the best preliminaries to panty dropping in history .

Having a sense of humor is one of the best assets you can have in lowering a woman’s guard and getting her to be more comfortable and open up to you. People in general enjoy hanging around other happy people who in turn can make them smile.(statistics) Laughter is contagious and makes this cold world we live in a little warmer.

I remember talking to a lady but I could tell she was a little hesitant to talk about sex. So I asked a question. ” Mary, would you say having sex with you is like going to great adventure, splish splash or Disney’s world on ice?. She laughed hard and said splish splash. I said ” Good lawd, lemme get my scuba gear ready”. She laughed again.

The next night I was in her bed with her wiping me down with the warm rag. Humor works.

3. You look and smell like shit.

Another popular saying is ” If you look good, you feel good”. This is true. Who doesn’t like being complimented on a nice outfit or accessory? (Sidebar: Women like this too)

The popular saying for a man who dresses well and has confidence is that he has swag aka swagger.. The man who’s confident doesn’t necessarily have to dress well, but it makes it easier to attract women if your outfit is put together nicely.  Women love to see a well-groomed man and appreciate a man who looks good in what he wears.

Hit the gym. Stay in shape. Eat healthy. Working out will increase your stamina in bed and stimulate the production of testosterone. You will also have a greater sex drive. Not to mention the fact that women love a well-built man.

Women also love a man that smells good. Get some cologne that works for your body type. You can always get free samples from Sephora to test. Shower regularly.

Swag aka swagger is important because if you’re not having sex than you need to stand out more than the average guy. You are basically making yourself more marketable for pussy. Women love to show off their man and this is one way to keep getting new pussy as well. You don’t even have to spend a lot of money with Marshalls, TJ Maxx, Ross, Macy’s clearance rack and thrifting.

Have at least two suits and two pair of dress shoes. Know or learn how to tie a tie.

I remember a woman saying she slept with an ugly guy cause he always had on nice jeans. Nice jeans??!! Hey, it got him some pussy. Do you have on some nice jeans?

4. You’re not well-rounded.

A man has to be a Swiss army knife. He should know how to do various things around the house, car and beyond. He should also be able to have a discussion about a broad range of topics. The broader range of knowledge that you have equals the broader the choice of women you can attract and bed.

One thing all women love, even the uneducated ones, is an educated man. Intelligence is sexy. People want people they can learn and grow from. This is why nerds and squares have sex.

Beautiful women have heard they are beautiful all their life. Do and say things that are out of the ordinary. What are you saying that’s different? How are you stimulating them mentally? Can you put up a bookshelf? Change a tire? What’s the last book you read? Do you follow current events? World events?

I once was talking to this woman about where she got her bracelet from at a bar. Turns out she got it from Ghana and I was able to discuss some history about Mansa Musa that she didn’t even know. Before you know it she’s so engaged in the discussion she ended up drinking and I ended up having a one night stand.

I can’t tell you the amount of times i got laid simply by speaking well and displaying wisdom and a command of knowledge. Become knowledgeable and the world will open up for you.

Knowledge is pussy power.

5. You talk to much and don’t listen enough.

Some men have an ego the size of a small continent. They brag and boast about every single thing that has happened to them and that they have accomplished. So much so, that they have no time to listen to what a woman is actually saying.

Don’t get me wrong. Accomplishments are great and something to be proud of. They should be cherished and honored. The business you conduct and the going about of your daily life are also things that can be used to stimulate conversation, which in turn make you more interesting. Interesting people get laid.

The problem is when ALL you do or say is about yourself and your interest and acquisitions. Women hate when they can’t get a word in during a discussion.

The one thing women love to do is talk and express themselves. Women are very communal and if they have a problem they are more apt to discuss it with their girlfriends, more so than men discuss problems and issues with their guy friends.

If you ask questions that are interesting and unique,(see: you’re not well-rounded) all you really have to do is sit back and learn her likes, dislikes and hobbies. It also gives you insight into her state of mind. Knowing these things helps you to relate to the woman of your interest and if you have things in common it will draw her closer too you.

Women will tell you what they want and when. Just listen.

6. You don’t have any manners or chivalry.

Opening the door for her, pulling out her chair, putting your woman on the inside of the street while walking, letting her place her order in a restaurant first or even ordering for her, holding her hand while walking up steps : These are all basics of chivalry.

Contrary to popular opinion, showing you have manners and are chivalrous has the effect of weakening the barriers that women put up upon engaging with you. It doesn’t make you a sucker or soft, in fact, none of these actions cost a dime!

Women usually have some reservation upon meeting a man, even if they find them attractive. The goal is to break through any reservations that she has and get her comfortable enough to open up to you.

We all like being treated special. We all love to be spoiled in some way. It doesn’t matter your gender. The point is to stand out among  other men and to let a woman know you have the ability and willingness to treat her special, worthwhile and differently then the previous assholes she encountered.

You’ll be surprised how much pussy you can get just by holding a woman’s hand while you cross the street. Yes she can cross on her own. But why not be different  and show her you’re willing to protect her?

7. You haven’t healed from your Ex .

If you’re still treating women like the lyrics you heard from an N.W.A or Future album then you are either immature, a fuckboy, or have been hurt by a woman and never took time to heal. Most of the time its the latter or those misogynistic lyrics wouldn’t resonate that much with you.

The value of being a woman is that they have a network of other women that they can run their problems by and get counseling on how to handle and process their pain. Men generally do not have that.
Men tend to keep things in and not show emotion because male pain and emotions  are seen as weaknesses by the unseasoned observer. All that “boys don’t cry” stuff we are taught early on is significant influence in how we process hurt and pain.

Males usually just move on to another woman and may subsequently start treating women like dirt because hurt people hurt people. Its easier to use and discard women rather than genuinely connect with someone and be hurt again.

However, this does not have to be the case because doing that also limits your ability to attract genuine women which in turn leads to more pain and loneliness in the long run. You can talk to a platonic female friend about the issues you had with women who hurt you. You can talk to a counselor or psychiatrist. You can write about your experience and see what you’ve learned and allow yourself to love again.

The pain of a love lost can be processed  but it does take time. Contrary to popular belief, Men take longer to heal from heartbreak then women do. You have to process what she did wrong in the relationship and forgive her genuinely and process what you did wrong in the relationship and improve on it for the next relationship. If you have to mentally go back to that 1st girl who ever hurt you, go back.

Getting hurt in a relationship never killed anyone. Nor will it kill you if it happens again. In fact each heartbreak is a learning experience and to avoid it is to avoid life’s greatest joy. Love is an amazing bonding emotion and to give that to another human is one of the greatest things you can do.

The saying is true: it is better to have love and lost then to never love again. You grow from your mistakes.

If you enjoyed this subscribe and i hope you have so many  offers that you’re turning pussy down left and right. Part 2 coming Soon. …
Amy Winehouse has some tips for you too……